The Roots of Clutter

How do we end up with so much clutter? Because we collect it. And why do we collect it?

For one thing, it’s cheap entertainment, and I do mean cheap; much stuff nowadays is inexpensive and doesn’t hold up well, but it serves its purpose by temporarily satisfying a desire. The problem is when we hang onto it when we don’t need it anymore, or when it’s no longer useful. Some typical cheap and temporary thrills that soon turn to clutter include clothes bought on impulse, kitchen items that are more attractive than useful, and craft items for crafts we hope to take up someday.

Also, credit allows us to amass all sorts of things we couldn’t afford otherwise. Compared to our elders, for whom stuff was more expensive and saved up for or not bought, we can have many things we don’t have the money to buy outright. So we can end up with more stuff than we would have otherwise.

Of course, clutter is sometimes the visible evidence of emotional issues. You buy something to make yourself feel better after an argument, a frustration, a breakup, or just a bad day at work. Shopping therapy can leave you temporarily satisfied but living in an overpacked home.

Finally, a lack of clutter, or simplicity, can leave us feeling naked, like there’s nothing to protect us from the world or ourselves. It’s no surprise that some of our greatest thinkers emphasized a minimum of stuff. They understood that possessions don’t make the man (or woman), and that sometimes, possessions own you instead of the other way around, leaving you too busy maintaining all of your stuff to think hard about what’s going on in your life and in the world. Ultimately, your clutter can be a great distraction from more important issues.

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My Decluttering Weak Area

I’ve done really well at keeping the clutter from coming back since our big downsizing, except for one area: my sewing habit.

I actually have two designated sewing spots in my house: one upstairs and one downstairs. I’m beginning to realize that amount of stuff in each area is expanding. I just don’t seem to be able to pass up great deals on fabric, buttons, zippers, etc. when I go to garage sales, estate sales, and destashing sales (where quilters sell fabric from their stash that they don’t need anymore.)

Not that any of these things take up a lot of room on their own, but collectively, well……let’s just say my plastic storage boxes are full up and I find myself thinking about buying more of them. But I won’t let myself go there. I’m going to have to do some destashing of my own and reduce the amount of stuff I’m hanging on to in hopes of using it for future projects.

The challenge for people who sew is that we love fabric and sewing supplies, and can easily think of many different ways to use these things. We just don’t have enough time. Or, as I saw recently on Pinterest: “I have so much fabric because I shop a lot faster than I can sew.”

Digital Fast is Extended Indefinitely

My recent and ongoing digital fast has really opened my eyes to how technology can add virtual clutter to your life. But what does digital fasting have to do with decluttering?

What I’ve learned over the past month is that being addicted to technology, and in my case Internet surfing, keeps you from doing things you enjoy. With the best intentions, you buy more yarn…paint….garden plants, and then struggle to find the time to work with those things because you waste too much time surfing, or checking up to see what people are doing on Facebook, because of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). Future projects pile up and supplies you’ve bought sit collecting dust because you spend too much time with your phone, tablet, or laptop.

While I’ve now discovered this for myself personally, I know of others with similar struggles, like the hoarder who lives in a mess but is constantly checking people’s Facebook and Instagram to see what new clothes they’re wearing or what they’re buying for their house now. Then she orders those new things online; they’re soon delivered and simply add to her houseful of clutter.

An Internet addiction, whether the sufferer is a news hound like me, a Facebook addict like the hoarder I know, or even a gaming or Pinterest lover, eats up enormous amounts of time that would otherwise be spent keeping up with other pursuits, including those that create clutter if you don’t follow through with them. This is one more way people end up with closets full of fabric, tabletops covered with books and basements packed with craft supplies.

In addition to the clutter those things create, we miss out on the fun we could be having with those items. There’s a peace you get from creating and finishing things that cannot be matched by satisfying your FOMO….and news junkies like me definitely have FOMO.

This experiment has led me to decide to stay off Internet news sites for the foreseeable future. After a month away from them, I feel very uninformed, and much less stressed. Best of all, my garden is in great shape, I’m reading a couple of books a week, and I’m having fun with a couple of craft projects that I may actually complete before long, now that I’m not spending so much time online.