The Roots of Clutter

How do we end up with so much clutter? Because we collect it. And why do we collect it?

For one thing, it’s cheap entertainment, and I do mean cheap; much stuff nowadays is inexpensive and doesn’t hold up well, but it serves its purpose by temporarily satisfying a desire. The problem is when we hang onto it when we don’t need it anymore, or when it’s no longer useful. Some typical cheap and temporary thrills that soon turn to clutter include clothes bought on impulse, kitchen items that are more attractive than useful, and craft items for crafts we hope to take up someday.

Also, credit allows us to amass all sorts of things we couldn’t afford otherwise. Compared to our elders, for whom stuff was more expensive and saved up for or not bought, we can have many things we don’t have the money to buy outright. So we can end up with more stuff than we would have otherwise.

Of course, clutter is sometimes the visible evidence of emotional issues. You buy something to make yourself feel better after an argument, a frustration, a breakup, or just a bad day at work. Shopping therapy can leave you temporarily satisfied but living in an overpacked home.

Finally, a lack of clutter, or simplicity, can leave us feeling naked, like there’s nothing to protect us from the world or ourselves. It’s no surprise that some of our greatest thinkers emphasized a minimum of stuff. They understood that possessions don’t make the man (or woman), and that sometimes, possessions own you instead of the other way around, leaving you too busy maintaining all of your stuff to think hard about what’s going on in your life and in the world. Ultimately, your clutter can be a great distraction from more important issues.

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My Decluttering Weak Area

I’ve done really well at keeping the clutter from coming back since our big downsizing, except for one area: my sewing habit.

I actually have two designated sewing spots in my house: one upstairs and one downstairs. I’m beginning to realize that amount of stuff in each area is expanding. I just don’t seem to be able to pass up great deals on fabric, buttons, zippers, etc. when I go to garage sales, estate sales, and destashing sales (where quilters sell fabric from their stash that they don’t need anymore.)

Not that any of these things take up a lot of room on their own, but collectively, well……let’s just say my plastic storage boxes are full up and I find myself thinking about buying more of them. But I won’t let myself go there. I’m going to have to do some destashing of my own and reduce the amount of stuff I’m hanging on to in hopes of using it for future projects.

The challenge for people who sew is that we love fabric and sewing supplies, and can easily think of many different ways to use these things. We just don’t have enough time. Or, as I saw recently on Pinterest: “I have so much fabric because I shop a lot faster than I can sew.”

Clutter and Different Generations: Today’s Young Adults

Today’s young adult generation seems to have far less clutter than their parents or grandparents have (or had). I think there are a couple of reasons for this.

First off, they’re not faced with the level of temptation that my generation was when it comes to buying things. Many of today’s young people have no experience of wearing well-made clothes. They’ve grown up with poorly made clothes, cut from skimpy cloth. They see clothing as almost disposable. My children buy cheap clothes for their children because they’re readily available, and cheap in price as well as in quality. They’re too busy to search for high-quality clothes for their kids, and they can’t really afford designer kiddie clothes.

As for furniture, they’d just as soon buy a few cheap pieces from Target or IKEA and be done with it until it breaks. They have no interest in the solid oak furniture we have. Just the other day, I saw a 1980s entertainment center on the front lawn of an apartment building with a “Free” sign on it. It had stained glass windows and was made of oak; I remember when those were popular, and I’d guess the original owner paid several hundred dollars, maybe even a thousand, for it. But today, no one wants it.

Second, malls are dying, and even free-standing stores are disappearing. Everyone blames online shopping, and there’s no doubt that it has made a big dent. But I think the loss of the enjoyable shopping experience also bears some blame, and then there’s a third factor: these days, many adults are literally addicted to their smartphones. They don’t have time to go shopping, and they don’t see the need to spend money on lots of store purchases besides food and personal items.

If they need anything, they can buy it online, but they prefer to spend their money on experiences that they can document on social media. They’re too busy taking photos of their latest restaurant meal or vacation experience to go shopping. As a result, they don’t collect anywhere near as much “stuff” as their parents or grandparents did.

In addition, many of them can’t afford a house because of the huge disparity between housing costs and income in many places. Previous generations were able to afford a house when they were fairly young, giving them that much more time to fill up every nook and cranny. But many of today’s young adults live in condos or apartments; some still live with their parents. Also, quite a few of them have to move frequently for their careers, so they don’t want a lot of stuff weighing them down.

For those reasons, most of them probably won’t have the problems with clutter than many of their elders have. That’s wonderful, but that also makes it more likely that they will be completely mystified by our huge collections of stuff. And if we don’t go through it all and get rid of what we no longer need before we die, they’re not going to be very happy to do it for us after we’re gone.