Category Archives: Small-House Living

My Favorite Decluttering Quotes

By Claire Posted in Clutter, Simpler Living, Small-House Living Tagged , ,

Ever since decluttering became a popular trend, it seems like nearly everyone has jumped on the bandwagon. As a result, there are a lot of great quotes and memes floating around the Internet relating to decluttering. Here are some of my favorites, and the last one is the best:

The more things you own, the more they own you. Anonymous

Clutter is the result of delayed decisions. Anonymous

Perfectionism is often an excuse for procrastination. Paul Graham

You can’t reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday’s junk. Louise Smith

Life is a balance of holding on and letting go. Anonymous

The more you have, the more you dust! Robin Bastian

Storage experts are hoarders. Marie Kondo

If you don’t love it or use it, it’s clutter. Anonymous

Your home is living space, not storage space. Francine Jay

Happiness is a place between too little and too much. Finnish proverb

“Later” is the best friend of clutter. Peter Walsh

Collect moments, not things. Anonymous

Finally, my very favorite decluttering quote, words for a declutterer to live by, is:

Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful. William Morris

Clutter Makes Me Hate This Chore Even More Than I Already Do

By Claire Posted in Clutter, Personal, Simpler Living, Small-House Living Tagged ,

Do you have a least-favorite chore?

I like to cook, don’t mind doing laundry, and will even vacuum if I have to. But wow, do I ever hate dusting.

Why do I hate dusting? Well, it’s boring, and once I do it, the furniture only looks nice for a day or two and then dust starts collecting again.

Not that I don’t appreciate a freshly dusted and polished surface, because I do. I just don’t like getting it to that point and having it last only a brief time.

So I often procrastinate about dusting, and that’s bad enough, but I daily procrastinate about dusting when the surfaces around my home have collected clutter.

Perhaps one of us recently celebrated a birthday, so there are cards on the bookshelves, each one requiring that I move it before I can dust each shelf. Bleah! ( as Snoopy would say.)

Or maybe someone has been really busy lately and has allowed extra reading material to build up all over the end table next to her favorite chair (can’t imagine who that would be!) I figure, since the table is covered with stuff, the dust can’t get under it anyways, so why bother? But once the frustration of not having a place to set a coffee cup kicks in, dusting (after decluttering) the end table goes back on the to-do list.

You see, the decluttering part is what really drags out the whole process. When I make the effort to keep surfaces clear, I sometimes get an urge to quickly swipe a dust cloth over a surface. But when the surface is cluttered, the only urge I get is to pretend I don’t notice what a mess it has become.

Whittling Down the Wardrobe

By Claire Posted in Clutter, Personal, Simpler Living, Small-House Living Tagged , ,

Some areas of clutter are easier to conquer than others. For me, keeping my wardrobe under control is a challenge, so I tend to put off doing so until my closet becomes too crowded. It has now reached that level, so it’s time to go through my clothes again.

This gets complicated. We have very definite changes of season where I live, so there are summer clothes and winter clothes to be gone through as well several seasonally transitional items.

To make matters worse, like many women I have three sizes of clothes in my possession: tight clothes, clothes that fit fine and larger clothes for when I overdo it.

I’ve learned over time that the best way to start getting rid of clothes is to first find and pull all of those that have seen better days. I have tops that I love but that are looking pretty worn, to the point that I don’t wear them when I leave the house. There’s no reason to keep them all except that I’m sentimentally attached to them, and if you’ve read my latest book, you know that is not a good reason to keep things. So out they go!

I’ve also learned to keep the highest quality clothes that I like, as well as those I love. It’s been a while since I’ve seen well-made clothes out of good material in stores, so I will hang onto anything I like that is good quality because it will keep its shape and last longer than most other clothes I own.

Sometimes I have to pretend I’m someone else when I’m assessing the condition of each item; this helps me bypass my innate sentimentality in favor of the part of me that adores well-made things.

I make a yearly effort to go through all of my clothes because I live in a small house with small closets and limited storage space. My reward will be that great feeling I’ll get when I go through my closet and drawers to find that everything is neatly arranged and nothing is squashed in. Know what I mean?

Two Rooms, No Stress

By Claire Posted in Clutter, downsizing, Personal, Simpler Living, Small-House Living Tagged , ,

I have a dear friend who lives in a very large house with her husband. They have four bedrooms, three baths, a living room and a family room, a kitchen, eating area and dining room, a basement…..and a screened gazebo in the backyard for outdoor living. It’s a lovely place, and it’s filled with all sorts of unique and interesting items, some from their extensive international travels.

Over the past year, they both suffered serious health problems. Fortunately they’re recovering. But they decided against any international vacations this year, and instead just spent a week in a lake cottage in the next state.

I can’t get over how much they loved that one-bedroom cottage. They raved about its great room, its screened porch and its proximity to the beach. They loved the outdoor shower that let them rinse off the sand after a day in the waves. My friend says they ate simple meals each day for breakfast and lunch, went out to dinner each evening, and went for a few scenic drives. Otherwise, they just relaxed.

Now they’re back home. I haven’t talked to my friend since the day after their return, but I just have this feeling that a week of the simple life made their large and very full house seem a bit overwhelming to them when they got back.

The fact is that you can live in a place for years without realizing that it’s far more house than you need. At least not until you get a taste of the simple life, and then you may find that a simpler life is usually a better one.

I’ll be interested to see if my friend brings this up sometime soon.